Argumnet and Discussion

An Argument - Throw heat, exhange of ignorance, expression of temper, tries to prove who is right.

A Discussion - throw light, exchange of knowledge, expression of logic, tries to prove what is right.

Selfishness and Self-Interest

Selfishness is negative and destuctive. It destoys relationships because it is based on negative values. It believes in the win-lose principle. Self-Interest is positive. It welcomes prosperity, peace of mind, good health and happiness. Self-interest believes in win-win situations.

Ego and Pride

The biggest hurdle in building a positive relationship is Ego. Ego is an unhealthly pride that results in arrogance. Healthy pride is a feeling of the pleasure of accomplishmnet with humility. Ego gives a swollen head while pride gives a swollen heart. A big head gives a headache where a big heart gives humility.

Factors Prevent Positive Relationships

Selfishness
Negative Attitude
Closed Mind
Lack of Listening
Rude behavior
Lack of discipline

Build and Maintain Positive Attitude

If you want to build and maintain a positive attitude, you need to consciously practice the following steps:
1. Change Focus, Look for the Positive.
2. Make a habit of Doing it Now
3. Develop an Attitude of Gratitude
4. Build a Positive Self-Esteem
6. Stay away from Negative inflences
7. Learn to like the things that need to be done.

Winners manthra

1. WINNERS don't DO different things, they DO things differently.
2. Never leave till tomorrow, which you can do today.

Power of Positive Attitude

Positive attitude, positive thinking, and optimism are now known to be a root cause of many positive life benefits—the good life and well being. You'll live longer and be healthier and happier with a positive attitude toward life. In addition, you're more likely to be successful. Learn to use the power of thinking positive, adopting positive attitudes, and affirmations to gain important life benefits.