Selfishness and Self-Interest

Selfishness is negative and destuctive. It destoys relationships because it is based on negative values. It believes in the win-lose principle. Self-Interest is positive. It welcomes prosperity, peace of mind, good health and happiness. Self-interest believes in win-win situations.

Ego and Pride

The biggest hurdle in building a positive relationship is Ego. Ego is an unhealthly pride that results in arrogance. Healthy pride is a feeling of the pleasure of accomplishmnet with humility. Ego gives a swollen head while pride gives a swollen heart. A big head gives a headache where a big heart gives humility.

Factors Prevent Positive Relationships

Selfishness
Negative Attitude
Closed Mind
Lack of Listening
Rude behavior
Lack of discipline