Thursday, December 23, 2010
Selfishness and Self-Interest
Selfishness is negative and destuctive. It destoys relationships because it is based on negative values. It believes in the win-lose principle. Self-Interest is positive. It welcomes prosperity, peace of mind, good health and happiness. Self-interest believes in win-win situations.
Ego and Pride
The biggest hurdle in building a positive relationship is Ego. Ego is an unhealthly pride that results in arrogance. Healthy pride is a feeling of the pleasure of accomplishmnet with humility. Ego gives a swollen head while pride gives a swollen heart. A big head gives a headache where a big heart gives humility.
Factors Prevent Positive Relationships
Selfishness
Negative Attitude
Closed Mind
Lack of Listening
Rude behavior
Lack of discipline
Negative Attitude
Closed Mind
Lack of Listening
Rude behavior
Lack of discipline
Tuesday, June 22, 2010
Build and Maintain Positive Attitude
If you want to build and maintain a positive attitude, you need to consciously practice the following steps:
1. Change Focus, Look for the Positive.
2. Make a habit of Doing it Now
3. Develop an Attitude of Gratitude
4. Build a Positive Self-Esteem
6. Stay away from Negative inflences
7. Learn to like the things that need to be done.
1. Change Focus, Look for the Positive.
2. Make a habit of Doing it Now
3. Develop an Attitude of Gratitude
4. Build a Positive Self-Esteem
6. Stay away from Negative inflences
7. Learn to like the things that need to be done.
Winners manthra
1. WINNERS don't DO different things, they DO things differently.
2. Never leave till tomorrow, which you can do today.
2. Never leave till tomorrow, which you can do today.
Saturday, May 1, 2010
Power of Positive Attitude
Positive attitude, positive thinking, and optimism are now known to be a root cause of many positive life benefits—the good life and well being. You'll live longer and be healthier and happier with a positive attitude toward life. In addition, you're more likely to be successful. Learn to use the power of thinking positive, adopting positive attitudes, and affirmations to gain important life benefits.
Positive Thinking
The difference between can and cannot are only three letters. Three letters that determine your life's direction. Being positive or negative are habits of thoughts that have a very strong influence on life. Positive thinking is expecting, talking and visualizing with certainty what you want to achieve, as an accomplished fact.
Monday, March 8, 2010
How to Think Positive Thoughts By Nannette Richford
How to Think Positive Thoughts By Nannette Richford.
What we think affects our lives in many ways. We are told that negative thoughts and feelings bring about negative results, and positive thoughts can bring positive change. Intuitively, we know this is true, but for some, learning to create and maintain positive thoughts is a difficult task wrought with obstacles that have been ingrained from years of negative thinking. Whether you think positive thoughts or negative thoughts about the world around you is within your control, but it does require some effort and attention to your own thought process
1. Accept the fact that you are in control of your own thoughts. Until you realize and accept this, you will be powerless to change your own thought process and make positive changes. Do not be misled into thinking that if you change your thoughts for a day or week that your life circumstances will suddenly change. Although you may see a gradual change in your circumstances, the important thing is refocusing how you view them.
2. Learn to recognize negative thoughts and stop them in their tracks. This applies to your thoughts about others as well as your thoughts about yourself. Keep a journal and write down each negative thought you have during the day. Make a note of the circumstances and what triggered the thought. Don't worry that your list fills up quickly; this is normal for most of us. Just keep jotting down those negative thoughts. This will give you a good indication of just how many negative thoughts pass through your mind every day.
3. Make a decision to stop negative thoughts at the moment they begin. Do not allow yourself the luxury of completing the thought. Replace a negative thought immediately with a positive one. Change "I can't do this" to "Hey I'm learning, and I'll get the hang of this in no time." You will be surprised how easy it is to replace a negative thought with a positive one once you have practiced for a few days.
4. Surround yourself with positive and inspiring quotes. Post them in places where you will see them throughout the day. Add a quote of the day to your bathroom mirror to remind yourself to think positive thoughts. Select posters, screen savers or notepads that have positive verses that inspire you.
5. Don't give up. It may take a while to get into the habit of thinking positive thoughts. Avoid the temptation to revert to old habits when things aren't going well. Keep working at changing your thoughts, and even if the circumstances of your life do not change, how you look at them will, paving the way for you to seize new opportunities and make positive changes to your life.
What we think affects our lives in many ways. We are told that negative thoughts and feelings bring about negative results, and positive thoughts can bring positive change. Intuitively, we know this is true, but for some, learning to create and maintain positive thoughts is a difficult task wrought with obstacles that have been ingrained from years of negative thinking. Whether you think positive thoughts or negative thoughts about the world around you is within your control, but it does require some effort and attention to your own thought process
1. Accept the fact that you are in control of your own thoughts. Until you realize and accept this, you will be powerless to change your own thought process and make positive changes. Do not be misled into thinking that if you change your thoughts for a day or week that your life circumstances will suddenly change. Although you may see a gradual change in your circumstances, the important thing is refocusing how you view them.
2. Learn to recognize negative thoughts and stop them in their tracks. This applies to your thoughts about others as well as your thoughts about yourself. Keep a journal and write down each negative thought you have during the day. Make a note of the circumstances and what triggered the thought. Don't worry that your list fills up quickly; this is normal for most of us. Just keep jotting down those negative thoughts. This will give you a good indication of just how many negative thoughts pass through your mind every day.
3. Make a decision to stop negative thoughts at the moment they begin. Do not allow yourself the luxury of completing the thought. Replace a negative thought immediately with a positive one. Change "I can't do this" to "Hey I'm learning, and I'll get the hang of this in no time." You will be surprised how easy it is to replace a negative thought with a positive one once you have practiced for a few days.
4. Surround yourself with positive and inspiring quotes. Post them in places where you will see them throughout the day. Add a quote of the day to your bathroom mirror to remind yourself to think positive thoughts. Select posters, screen savers or notepads that have positive verses that inspire you.
5. Don't give up. It may take a while to get into the habit of thinking positive thoughts. Avoid the temptation to revert to old habits when things aren't going well. Keep working at changing your thoughts, and even if the circumstances of your life do not change, how you look at them will, paving the way for you to seize new opportunities and make positive changes to your life.
The Power of Positive Thinking by Remez Sasson
Positive thinking is a mental attitude that admits into the mind thoughts, words and images that are conductive to growth, expansion and success. It is a mental attitude that expects good and favorable results. A positive mind anticipates happiness, joy, health and a successful outcome of every situation and action. Whatever the mind expects, it finds.
Not everyone accepts or believes in positive thinking. Some consider the subject as just nonsense, and others scoff at people who believe and accept it. Among the people who accept it, not many know how to use it effectively to get results. Yet, it seems that many are becoming attracted to this subject, as evidenced by the many books, lectures and courses about it. This is a subject that is gaining popularity.
It is quite common to hear people say: "Think positive!", to someone who feels down and worried. Most people do not take these words seriously, as they do not know what they really mean, or do not consider them as useful and effective. How many people do you know, who stop to think what the power of positive thinking means?
Not everyone accepts or believes in positive thinking. Some consider the subject as just nonsense, and others scoff at people who believe and accept it. Among the people who accept it, not many know how to use it effectively to get results. Yet, it seems that many are becoming attracted to this subject, as evidenced by the many books, lectures and courses about it. This is a subject that is gaining popularity.
It is quite common to hear people say: "Think positive!", to someone who feels down and worried. Most people do not take these words seriously, as they do not know what they really mean, or do not consider them as useful and effective. How many people do you know, who stop to think what the power of positive thinking means?
When you Smile
Always smile with your heart not just with your face. It is really important that you don't smile just sake of smiling to someone. It creates a negative impression on others. When you smile with your heart, we can see happiness on your face and its spread positivity to others.
Monday, February 22, 2010
Positive Thinking
Hello.. Welcome to my Blog. I would like to talk more about positive thinking thru this portal. Please feel free to add your thoughts and ideas.
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